On that note, I can tell you without hesitation that guys have always given me better blow jobs than girls. A guy who hasn’t specifically practiced oral on a girl might not know that the clitoral hood is where he should focus his licking, and some girls I’ve talked to actually think that dome should involve sucking on a penis like a vacuum - ouch! The thought itself makes me happy to be gay.
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More recently, I’ve come to realize that most people don’t know how to give good oral because men and women are built so differently. In reality, it’s not surprising the number of girls who don’t know how to give good blow jobs or guys who need pointers on eating girls out. You can “suck” on a test, have a “sucky” TA, “suck” at drinking and of course, “suck” at just that - sucking. It’s always been funny to me the way the word “suck” has such a negative connotation in our society. This now becomes an anxious situation that is all too familiar for many couples who engage in oral sex. Suddenly, he yells in pain, “Teeth … teeth!!!” She pulls off, embarrassed. As she starts licking his shaft and going down on his member, he grabs her hair and starts moaning in pleasure. She kisses his neck, then his lips, finally moving down his torso towards his navel - he immediately pulls down his boxers. After a good couple of months o' practice, though, I came through.Her heart starts beating faster and faster as he thrusts his body onto hers while taking off her bra.
But the actual act? A little nerve-racking. But I did really love the EXPERIENCE and the EVENT of it all. I didn't hate it or anything, I was just sort of awkward and didn't really know what to do. compassionate, patient, enthusiastic at all the right times.Īs for whether or not I liked it, well - it grew on me. I admit, I was a little scared of the prospect of oral sex, but one day that comfort level grew and we were able to share that experience together. Therefore, the oral sex was just a sweet bonus to an already great thing. He truly loved me, and I think what really made me comfortable was the fact that he has always loved me - without the oral sex. He was so sweet, NEVER forced me - didn't even bug me about it, really. I had also lost my virginity to him several months before. I was with the fella that I'm still with today. Reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (30 March 2008): I was 12 and ive been doing it on a regular basis since I love feeling my guy pulse and come strong a clean penis gives an odor better than any perfume have probably swallowed enough semen in my 30 years down my throat to float a ocean liner Reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): I want to satisfy him but I can't do what should I do? I can't force myself to swallow and it really upsets my husband he wants it but I can't do. I don't mind sucking a cock and I always swallowed but I hated it now I don't swallow anymore. I had never done it with anybody else my boyfriend asked me to do it and I wasn't sure.
Reader, Ruthie +, writes (30 January 2010):Ģ0 years old I didn't know if I would or could do it.
So I am curious as to when to when girls started doing this on a large scale.Īlso, who was the boy/guy who got your first blowjob? A boyfriend, classmate, neighbor, or other male? Did you like doing it that very first time, or did it take a few more times before you got to where you liked it?įancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! I have question for you women and girl on this site: How old were you when you gave your first blowjob? The reason I ask is that I went to high school in a small town in the 1970s, before oral sex was known. Survey: how old were you when you performed your first fellatio, did you choose a special person and did you like it from the very beginning? Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!